include cleanups: remove unused headers and add feature test macros

fix typo in comment in __randname

add mkostemp, mkstemps, and mkostemps functions and reorganize temp internals

based on patch contributed by Anthony G. Basile (blueness)

some issues remain with the filename generation algorithm and other
small bugs, but this patch has been sitting around long enough that I
feel it's best to get it committed and then work out any remaining
issues.