add O_CLOEXEC fallback for open and related functions

since there is no easy way to detect whether open honored or ignored
the O_CLOEXEC flag, the optimal solution to providing a fallback is
simply to make the fcntl syscall to set the close-on-exec flag
immediately after open returns.

support kernels with no SYS_open syscall, only SYS_openat

open is handled specially because it is used from so many places, in
so many variants (2 or 3 arguments, setting errno or not, and
cancellable or not). trying to do it as a function would not only
increase bloat, but would also risk subtle breakage.

this is the first step towards supporting "new" archs where linux
lacks "old" syscalls.

clean up stdio_impl.h

this header evolved to facilitate the extremely lazy practice of
omitting explicit includes of the necessary headers in individual
stdio source files; not only was this sloppy, but it also increased
build time.

now, stdio_impl.h is only including the headers it needs for its own
use; any further headers needed by source files are included directly
where needed.

fix some more O_CLOEXEC/SOCK_CLOEXEC issues

fix crash in dns code with new stdio locking code

global cleanup to use the new syscall interface

initial check-in, version 0.5.0