add alternate backend support for getgrouplist

This completes the alternate backend support that was previously added
to the getpw* and getgr* functions. Unlike those, though, it
unconditionally queries nscd. Any groups from nscd that aren't in the
/etc/groups file are added to the returned list, and any that are
present in the file are ignored. The purpose of this behavior is to
provide a view of the group database consistent with what is observed
by the getgr* functions. If group memberships reported by nscd were
honored when the corresponding group already has a definition in the
/etc/groups file, the user's getgrouplist-based membership in the
group would conflict with their non-membership in the reported
gr_mem[] for the group.

The changes made also make getgrouplist thread-safe and eliminate its
clobbering of the global getgrent state.

support alternate backends for the passwd and group dbs

when we fail to find the entry in the commonly accepted files, we
query a server over a Unix domain socket on /var/run/nscd/socket.
the protocol used here is compatible with glibc's nscd protocol on
most systems (all that use 32-bit numbers for all the protocol fields,
which appears to be everything but Alpha).