perf mem: Clean up perf_mem_events__name()

Introduce a generic perf_mem_events__name(). Remove the ARCH-specific
one.

The mem_load events may have a different format. Add ldlat and aux_event
in the struct perf_mem_event to indicate the format and the extra aux
event.

Add perf_mem_events_intel_aux[] to support the extra mem_load_aux event.

Rename perf_mem_events__name to perf_pmu__mem_events_name.

Reviewed-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Tested-by: Ravi Bangoria <ravi.bangoria@amd.com>
Tested-by: Leo Yan <leo.yan@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Kan Liang <kan.liang@linux.intel.com>
Cc: james.clark@arm.com
Cc: will@kernel.org
Cc: mike.leach@linaro.org
Cc: renyu.zj@linux.alibaba.com
Cc: yuhaixin.yhx@linux.alibaba.com
Cc: tmricht@linux.ibm.com
Cc: atrajeev@linux.vnet.ibm.com
Cc: linux-arm-kernel@lists.infradead.org
Cc: john.g.garry@oracle.com
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240123185036.3461837-4-kan.liang@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>