bcachefs: New data structure for buckets waiting on journal commit

Implement a hash table, using cuckoo hashing, for empty buckets that are
waiting on a journal commit before they can be reused.

This replaces the journal_seq field of bucket_mark, and is part of
eventually getting rid of the in memory bucket array.

We may need to make bch2_bucket_needs_journal_commit() lockless, pending
profiling and testing.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>