ixgbe: propagate XFRM offload state direction instead of flags

Convert the ixgbe driver to rely on XFRM offload state direction instead
of flags bits that were not checked at all.

Reviewed-by: Raed Salem <raeds@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>

ixgbevf: add VF IPsec offload code

Add the IPsec offload support code. This is based off of the similar
code in ixgbe, but instead of writing the SA registers, the VF asks
the PF to setup the offload by sending the offload information to the
PF via the standard mailbox.

Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@oracle.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>