freebsd_network: Implement bouncing and address validation in bus_dma.

This has been missing since the rewrite in 26b95c15f255904694ce8224b6f21f0b931a9cff.

Until now it seems to not have been a problem since buffer sizes
were generally small enough and did not cross page boundaries due
to alignment guarantees. However, now that we have enabled jumbo
frames by default, some drivers do hit DMA limits without bouncing,
as these frames cross pages.

So, now we implement a basic bouncing system. Unlike FreeBSD which
maintains a global "bounce pages" cache that it pulls from,
we use per-dmamap bounce buffers, lazily allocated only if needed.
I tested this by forcing all non-"prohibited" dmamaps to bounce all
transactions, and the rtl81xx driver still worked that way (though
not all drivers may as they have expectations about contiguously
allocated memory never getting bounced.)

This should fix #17763. Hopefully it will also fix #17766 as well.

freebsd_network/malloc: include kernel/heap.h

This header was not included when Haiku is built with KDEBUG_LEVEL=0,
causing build failures.

Change-Id: I690064f7c1a9818056a394e2655811775c4cc554
Reviewed-on: https://review.haiku-os.org/c/haiku/+/2360
Reviewed-by: waddlesplash <waddlesplash@gmail.com>

freebsd_network: Moderate reorganization.

* Rename device.c to device_hooks.c, as this is what it really contains.
* Rename compat.c to device.c, as it implements the generic "device"
related functions, both for compat layer internals and FreeBSD
public ones.
* Move malloc and related operations out of the now-device.c,
and place them in a new "malloc.cpp", which also incorporates
compat_cpp.cpp.

No functional change intended.