zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@c0cf6ed67

Notable upstream pull request merges:
#10662 zvol_wait: Ignore locked zvols
#12789 Improve log spacemap load time
#12812 Improved zpool status output, list all affected datasets
#13277 FreeBSD: Use NDFREE_PNBUF if available
#13302 Make zfs_max_recordsize default to 16M
#13311 Fix error handling in FreeBSD's get/putpages VOPs
#13345 FreeBSD: Fix translation from ABD to physical pages
#13373 zfs: holds: dequadratify
#13375 Corrected edge case in uncompressed ARC->L2ARC handling
#13388 Improve mg_aliquot math
#13405 Reduce dbuf_find() lock contention
#13406 FreeBSD: use zero_region instead of allocating a dedicated page

Obtained from: OpenZFS
OpenZFS commit: c0cf6ed6792e545fd614c2a88cb53756db7e03f8

zfs: merge OpenZFS master-bedbc13da

Notable upstream commits:
8e43fa12c Fix vdev_rebuild_thread deadlock
03ef8f09e Add missing checks for unsupported features
2e160dee9 Fix assert in FreeBSD-specific dmu_read_pages
bedbc13da Cancel TRIM / initialize on FAULTED non-writeable vdevs

MFC after: 1 week
Obtained from: OpenZFS