zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@5e2c8338b (master) into main

Notable upstream pull request merges:
#12183 Optimize small random numbers generation
#12227 Revert Consolidate arc_buf allocation checks
#12266 Fix flag copying in resume case
#12273 zfs_metaslab_mem_limit should be 25 instead of 75
#12276 Update cache file when setting compatibility property
#12280 Help compiller optimize out abd_verify()
#12282 FreeBSD: fix compilation of FreeBSD world after 29274c9f6

Obtained from: OpenZFS
OpenZFS commit: 5e2c8338bf17d31b44eb1dbbb3c9b6a0f64e96ee

Update OpenZFS to 2.0.0-rc3-gfc5966

- fix panic due to tqid overflow
- Improve libzfs_error_init messages
- Expose zfetch_max_idistance tunable
- Make dbufstat work on FreeBSD
- Fix EIO after resuming receive of new dataset over an existing one

Initial import from vendor-sys branch of openzfs