tpcdump: Update to 4.99.4

Local changes:

- Update some local modifications to fix build
- Synch config.h with upstream as much as possible

Changelog: https://git.tcpdump.org/tcpdump/blob/55bc126b0216cfe409b8d6bd378f65679d136ddf:/CHANGES
Reviewed by: emaste
Obtained from: https://www.tcpdump.org/release/tcpdump-4.99.4.tar.gz
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

MFV r353143 (phillip):

Update tcpdump from 4.9.2 to 4.9.3.

MFC after: 2 weeks