Copy stable/9 to releng/9.3 as part of the 9.3-RELEASE cycle.

Approved by: re (implicit)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

MFC 249066:
Check for SS_NBIO in the socket state field rather than socket buffer
flags.

MFC r227293 (by ed):
Mark MALLOC_DEFINEs static that have no corresponding MALLOC_DECLAREs.

This means that their use is restricted to a single C file.

MFC: r227309 (partial)

Mark all SYSCTL_NODEs static that have no corresponding SYSCTL_DECLs.

The SYSCTL_NODE macro defines a list that stores all child-elements of
that node. If there's no SYSCTL_DECL macro anywhere else, there's no
reason why it shouldn't be static.

MFC 233040,233198,233870,234183:
Add OFED and the associated options and drivers to x86 LINT builds:
- Fix build with INET6 disabled.
- Fix build of OFED bits with debugging options enabled.
- Fix build on i386.
- Mark 'sdp' as requiring 'inet'.
- Always include "opt_inet.h" and "opt_inet6.h" and modify the IB
driver Makefiles to honor WITH/WITHOUT_INET/INET6/_SUPPORT options
to determine what should be enabled during a module build.
- Fix the mlxen(4) driver and the core IB code to compile without
if INET is disabled (including when both INET and INET6 are disabled).

Copy head to stable/9 as part of 9.0-RELEASE release cycle.

Approved by: re (implicit)

- Merge in OFED 1.5.3 from projects/ofed/head