MFC r314651,r318439,r318440:

r314651:

sys/modules: normalize .CURDIR-relative paths to SRCTOP

This simplifies make output/logic

Tested with: `cd sys/modules; make ALL_MODULES=` on amd64

r318439:

Normalize .PATH on SRCTOP

This will help Jenkins dedupe 9 warnings between the static build and
the module build of ipsec(4).

Missed in SRCTOP conversion in r314651.

MFC with: r314651

r318440:

Normalize SYSDIR on SRCTOP instead of .CURDIR

This is being done to simplify pathing for CFLAGS and source files.

Copy head@r302406 to stable/11 as part of the 11.0-RELEASE cycle.
Prune svn:mergeinfo from the new branch, as nothing has been merged
here.

Additional commits post-branch will follow.

Approved by: re (implicit)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

Move most of the 15 variations on generating opt_inet.h and
opt_inet6.h into kmod.mk by forcing almost everybody to eat the same
dogfood. While at it, consolidate the opt_bpf.h and opt_mroute.h
targets here too.

Use src.opts.mk in preference to bsd.own.mk except where we need stuff
from the latter.

Fix 'make depend'.

Fix ip_divert handling of inet and inet6 and module building some more.

Properly sort the "carp" case in modules/Makefile after it was renamed.

Reported by: bde (most)
Reviewed by: bde
MFC after: 3 days

Add possibility to pass IPv6 packets to a divert(4) socket.

Submitted by: sem

Convert IPDIVERT into a loadable module. This makes use of the dynamic loadability
of protocols. The call to divert_packet() is done through a function pointer. All
semantics of IPDIVERT remain intact. If IPDIVERT is not loaded ipfw will refuse to
install divert rules and natd will complain about 'protocol not supported'. Once
it is loaded both will work and accept rules and open the divert socket. The module
can only be unloaded if no divert sockets are open. It does not close any divert
sockets when an unload is requested but will return EBUSY instead.