MFC r314048,r314194: reimplement zfsctl (.zfs) support

Copy head@r302406 to stable/11 as part of the 11.0-RELEASE cycle.
Prune svn:mergeinfo from the new branch, as nothing has been merged
here.

Additional commits post-branch will follow.

Approved by: re (implicit)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

fix a vnode reference leak caused by illumos compat traverse()

This commit partially reverts r273641 which introduced the leak.
It did so to accomodate for some consumers of traverse() that expected
the starting vnode to stay as-is. But that introduced the leak in the
case when a mounted filesystem was found and its root vnode was
returned.

r299914 removed the troublesome consumers and now there is no reason to
keep the starting vnode. So, now the new rules are:
- if there is no mounted filesystem, then nothing is changed
- otherwise the starting vnode is always released
- the root vnode of the mounted filesystem is returned locked and
referenced in the case of success

MFC after: 5 weeks
X-MFC after: r299914

This change addresses 4 bugs in ZFS exposed by Richard Kojedzinszky's
crash.sh script attached to FreeNAS bug 4109:
https://bugs.freenas.org/issues/4109

Three are in the snapshot layer:
a) AVG explains in his notes: https://wiki.freebsd.org/AvgVfsSolarisVsFreeBSD

"VOP_INACTIVE must not do any destructive actions to a vnode
and its filesystem node, nor invalidate them in any way."
gfs_vop_inactive and zfsctl_snapshot_inactive did just that. In
OpenSolaris VOP_INACTIVE is much closer to FreeBSD's VOP_RECLAIM.
Rename & move them to gfs_vop_reclaim and zfsctl_snapshot_reclaim
and merge in the requisite vnode_destroy from zfsctl_common_reclaim.

b) gfs_lookup_dot and various zfsctl functions do not honor the
FreeBSD VFS convention of only locking from the root downward. When
looking up ".." the convention is to drop the current leaf vnode lock before
acquiring the directory vnode and then subsequently re-acquiring the lock on the
leaf vnode. This fixes that in all the places that our exercised by crash.sh.

c) The snapshot may already be unmounted when the directory vnode is reclaimed.
Check for this case and return.

One in the common layer:
d) Callers of traverse expect the reference to the vnode passed in to be
maintained. Don't release it.

This last one may be an unclear contract. There may in fact be some callers that
do expect the reference to be dropped on success in addition to callers that
expect it to be released. In this case a further audit of the callers is needed
and a consensus on the correct behavior.

PR: 184677
Submitted by: kmacy
Reviewed by: delphij, will, avg
MFC after: 2 weeks
Sponsored by: iXsystems

opensolaris_lookup: use vfs_busy in traverse before calling VFS_ROOT

... to ensure that we have a valid mountpoint during the call.

Reviewed by: kib
MFC after: 19 days

Remove the support for using non-mpsafe filesystem modules.

In particular, do not lock Giant conditionally when calling into the
filesystem module, remove the VFS_LOCK_GIANT() and related
macros. Stop handling buffers belonging to non-mpsafe filesystems.

The VFS_VERSION is bumped to indicate the interface change which does
not result in the interface signatures changes.

Conducted and reviewed by: attilio
Tested by: pho

Remove the thread argument from the FSD (File-System Dependent) parts of
the VFS. Now all the VFS_* functions and relating parts don't want the
context as long as it always refers to curthread.

In some points, in particular when dealing with VOPs and functions living
in the same namespace (eg. vflush) which still need to be converted,
pass curthread explicitly in order to retain the old behaviour.
Such loose ends will be fixed ASAP.

While here fix a bug: now, UFS_EXTATTR can be compiled alone without the
UFS_EXTATTR_AUTOSTART option.

VFS KPI is heavilly changed by this commit so thirdy parts modules needs
to be recompiled. Bump __FreeBSD_version in order to signal such
situation.

Update ZFS from version 6 to 13 and bring some FreeBSD-specific changes.

This bring huge amount of changes, I'll enumerate only user-visible changes:

- Delegated Administration

Allows regular users to perform ZFS operations, like file system
creation, snapshot creation, etc.

- L2ARC

Level 2 cache for ZFS - allows to use additional disks for cache.
Huge performance improvements mostly for random read of mostly
static content.

- slog

Allow to use additional disks for ZFS Intent Log to speed up
operations like fsync(2).

- vfs.zfs.super_owner

Allows regular users to perform privileged operations on files stored
on ZFS file systems owned by him. Very careful with this one.

- chflags(2)

Not all the flags are supported. This still needs work.

- ZFSBoot

Support to boot off of ZFS pool. Not finished, AFAIK.

Submitted by: dfr

- Snapshot properties

- New failure modes

Before if write requested failed, system paniced. Now one
can select from one of three failure modes:
- panic - panic on write error
- wait - wait for disk to reappear
- continue - serve read requests if possible, block write requests

- Refquota, refreservation properties

Just quota and reservation properties, but don't count space consumed
by children file systems, clones and snapshots.

- Sparse volumes

ZVOLs that don't reserve space in the pool.

- External attributes

Compatible with extattr(2).

- NFSv4-ACLs

Not sure about the status, might not be complete yet.

Submitted by: trasz

- Creation-time properties

- Regression tests for zpool(8) command.

Obtained from: OpenSolaris