MFC r321986:
Change reject message type when destroying cm_id in ibore.

This patch fixes an interopability issue between FreeBSD and non-FreeBSD
systems when the connection establishment is aborted. Refer to the
initial commit in Linux, drivers/infiniband/core/cm.c,
for a more detailed description.

Obtained from: Linux
Sponsored by: Mellanox Technologies

MFC r270710 and r270821:
- Update the OFED Linux Emulation layer as a preparation for a
hardware driver update from Mellanox Technologies.
- Remove empty files from the OFED Linux Emulation layer.
- Fix compile warnings related to printf() and the "%lld" and "%llx"
format specifiers.
- Add some missing 2-clause BSD copyrights.
- Add "Mellanox Technologies, Ltd." to list of copyright holders.
- Add some new compatibility files.
- Fix order of uninit in the mlx4ib module to avoid crash at unload
using the new module_exit_order() function.

Sponsored by: Mellanox Technologies

MFC r270710 and r270821:
- Update the OFED Linux Emulation layer as a preparation for a
hardware driver update from Mellanox Technologies.
- Remove empty files from the OFED Linux Emulation layer.
- Fix compile warnings related to printf() and the "%lld" and "%llx"
format specifiers.
- Add some missing 2-clause BSD copyrights.
- Add "Mellanox Technologies, Ltd." to list of copyright holders.
- Add some new compatibility files.
- Fix order of uninit in the mlx4ib module to avoid crash at unload
using the new module_exit_order() function.

Sponsored by: Mellanox Technologies