Copy head (r256279) to stable/10 as part of the 10.0-RELEASE cycle.

Approved by: re (implicit)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

After r193232 rt_tables in vnet.h are no longer indirectly dependent on
the ROUTETABLES kernel option thus there is no need to include opt_route.h
anymore in all consumers of vnet.h and no longer depend on it for module
builds.

Remove the hidden include in flowtable.h as well and leave the two
explicit #includes in ip_input.c and ip_output.c.

Rather than using hidden includes (with cicular dependencies),
directly include only the header files needed. This reduces the
unneeded spamming of various headers into lots of files.

For now, this leaves us with very few modules including vnet.h
and thus needing to depend on opt_route.h.

Reviewed by: brooks, gnn, des, zec, imp
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

if_vlan no more depends on INET.

Fix standalone module build.

Reported by: Boris Samorodov

Let modules use the kernel's opt_*.h files if built along with
the kernel by wrapping all targets for fake opt_*.h files in
.if defined(KERNBUILDDIR). Thus, such fake files won't be
created at all if modules are built with the kernel.

Some modules undergo cleanup like removing unused or unneeded
options or .h files, without which they wouldn't build this way
or the other.

Reviewed by: ru
Tested by: no binary changes in modules built alone
Tested on: i386 sparc64 amd64

Drop <bsd.man.mk> support from <bsd.kmod.mk>.

Not objected to by: -current

Make vlan(4) loadable, unloadable, and clonable. As a side effect,
interfaces must now always enable VLAN support.

Reviewed by: jlemon
MFC after: 3 weeks