smp: Add source and destination CPUs to __call_single_data

This commit adds a destination CPU to __call_single_data, and is inspired
by an earlier commit by Peter Zijlstra. This version adds #ifdef to
permit use by 32-bit systems and supplying the destination CPU for all
smp_call_function*() requests, not just smp_call_function_single().

If need be, 32-bit systems could be accommodated by shrinking the flags
field to 16 bits (the atomic_t variant is currently unused) and by
providing only eight bits for CPU on such systems.

It is not clear that the addition of the fields to __call_single_node
are really needed.

[ paulmck: Apply Boqun Feng feedback on 32-bit builds. ]
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20200615164048.GC2531@hirez.programming.kicks-ass.net/
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: Ingo Molnar <mingo@kernel.org>
Cc: Thomas Gleixner <tglx@linutronix.de>
Cc: Sebastian Andrzej Siewior <bigeasy@linutronix.de>
Cc: Frederic Weisbecker <frederic@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@kernel.org>

smp, irq_work: Continue smp_call_function*() and irq_work*() integration

Instead of relying on BUG_ON() to ensure the various data structures
line up, use a bunch of horrible unions to make it all automatic.

Much of the union magic is to ensure irq_work and smp_call_function do
not (yet) see the members of their respective data structures change
name.

Suggested-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Frederic Weisbecker <frederic@kernel.org>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20200622100825.844455025@infradead.org