Copy head (r256279) to stable/10 as part of the 10.0-RELEASE cycle.

Approved by: re (implicit)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation

Per email to arch@ a little while ago (that was greeted with silence),
prefer the more common > ${.TARGET} over > opt_foo.h in modules
makefiles.

Let modules use the kernel's opt_*.h files if built along with
the kernel by wrapping all targets for fake opt_*.h files in
.if defined(KERNBUILDDIR). Thus, such fake files won't be
created at all if modules are built with the kernel.

Some modules undergo cleanup like removing unused or unneeded
options or .h files, without which they wouldn't build this way
or the other.

Reviewed by: ru
Tested by: no binary changes in modules built alone
Tested on: i386 sparc64 amd64

Connect trm(4) to the build.

Reviewed by: mux (mentor)
Approved by: mux (mentor)